Friday, October 29, 2010
Hey babe, (I changed my profile pic), Which is going to be Halloween costume? if any.
Every day in Halloween in my world. In an effort to recognize that it is 'officially' Halloween, I plan on dressing up as a 'civilian'.
Do you enjoy Shakespeare? What about books on history?
I will always associate Shakespeare with forced reading in middle and high school, so I don't enjoy it like I should.
Books on history in general...I love them.
What are your views on prostitution? My personal belief is that it should be legalized and regulated. If there are decent brothels where women can work and men can "shop" there'd be less dark alley attacks and less disease, violence, etc. Your thoughts?
I don't have problems with legalizing prostitution in America. It's not my thing, but I am friends with quite a few escorts and 95% of them are kick ass people. It is obviously not the job for everybody, but if somebody actually wants to do it and knows the risks/benefits, etc. associated with it they should be able to do so.
I feel that the main reason prostitution is illegal in America is simply because we equate women having any opportunity to be in control, sexually or otherwise, is seen as 'killing traditional values'. It is normally hidden behind some lame ass speech about religion, but it tends to come down to women+sex=bad.
I think that if it were legalized and regulated, there'd be far fewer problems in multiple areas of law, from drugs to murders to missing people. Women wouldn't need to hide in the shadows and constantly worry about being arrested/hurt/killed. If a women chooses to engage in prostitution and is doing it because she WANTS to, not because she is being forced to by a pimp or sex trafficking, then she should be able to do it in a safe environment. We spend so much money cleaning up crimes that didn't have to happen, and could use those funds elsewhere if we just made an environment that people could go to if they choose to engage in those activities.
Oh, and for the record, I'm obviously talking about people over the age of 18.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Would you ever consider acting in non adult short films and features? That is, creative films not pertaining to sex?
Oh yeah, totally. I'd do them in a heartbeat.
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Sybian. Yay or Nay?
Meh. Not the best invention ever, but not the worst, either. It could go either way.
What's the best compliment anyone has ever told you?
The best? I guess it would be when somebody told me I was the total opposite of what they thought I would be when the formed an opinion about me off of a photo/promotional picture as opposed to just meeting me in person.
Either that or when somebody told me that for being such a tiny girl from a tiny town in a super conservative area, I'm not afraid of not just going along with the flock of sheep in an attempt to keep the boat from rocking.
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Amusement Parks. Yay or Nay?
It depends on the time of year. During 'peak season' hell no. I'm not waiting in line for an hour and attempting to navigate through the crowds. My agoraphobia makes doing stuff like that impossible.
If it's sometime when the kids are in school, it's not a holiday, and the park is pretty much empty I can do it.
Is the love you take equal to the love you make? ;)
Nope. The love I take is ideally equal to the amount of love I am given. If there isn't a balance, it doesn't work, sexually or otherwise.
Do you consider yourself as a naughty women?
Not at all. Aside from being pretty open about sexuality, I'm just a regular chick with rather strong opinions about things that matter to me. Not naughty in the least, though.
What's your thoughts on life after death? Do you believe the traditional Buddhist theory of your present life dictating your next? If so, where do you think you'll be next time?
I'm actually not really sure. I don't believe in the 'heaven' and 'hell' concept, I do know that much. Anything that tries to get me to live a certain way by telling me I'll burn in a horrible place if I don't 'live by the word' is bullshit. I am anti-dogma.
Happiness and enlightenment=yes. Dogma=fuck no.
This set that suze did of you is my favorite http://www.porn-star.com/ginger-lee/adult.html Do you have a favorite pic?
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You did quite a large number of bondage scenes at a stage in your career. Was that something that fascinated you or was it just how things worked out?
I have a weird condition where I don't really feel pain most of them time unless it's crazy intense. I walked around with a dislocated shoulder for almost 10 days last year and didn't really feel it until about day number 8, dancing and shooting the whole time. It's weird.
But anyway, since I don't really feel pain, and I totally trusted the company I was working with, I had fun doing those kinds of scenes. It was mainly a trust thing, as I sure as hell wouldn't let just anybody shoot me doing them.
I miss those shoots. :sigh:
No cell phone for a week, could YOU do it?
Totally. I can go without a cell phone. I hate that damn thing.
Hmm... Im sure you're in this situation ALL the time but its a first for me. Short version? I dated a girl for a while, she wanted to be "friends" but still with benefits. I was planning on telling her its all over. She just said I love you. What do I do?
Be honest. Seriously. Don't sugarcoat it, and don't lie. It may come out harsh, but doing anything but being straight up will end up being more of a headache/heartache/dramarama than if you just say how you feel about the situation.
We're all sensitive, emotional creatures, and sometimes we don't want to hurt people so we try to 'let them down easy', but quite often that ends up sending mixed signals to the person we're trying to break it off with. Being honest about it is the best way to go.
Monday, October 25, 2010
You can only choose one to have sex with for a month. A fat dude, a fat girl, OR a short dude, or a short chick.
Hmmm. Well, it would either be a short guy or a short girl. I like shorties a lot.
Have you ever done Bikram or do you stay with the calmer side of it?
I've done Bikram, but I didn't really enjoy it as much as I enjoy the 'calmer' more relaxing versions. I do it for stress/anxiety relief, so doing stuff that constantly frustrated me defeated the purpose of going in the first place, ya know?
Great Sex or Great Dessert?
Dessert. Dessert by a flippin' mile. There are always chances for more great sex, but sometimes great dessert is a once in a lifetime experience.
Can you help me with something? I met your stripping "twin" 5 years ago. She used to work at the club next to CG. She quit in 2007. She has a normal job now, but she still has trouble making ends meet for her and her three kids. Should I keep helping her?
Which place do you want me to answer you, since you'd rather talk about it privately?
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Hey panda! Did you miss me? lol - Do you like sports?
I've missed you. Where have you been hiding? I like some sports, but can't stand others. Golf bores me, as does baseball.
Do you live in carpe diem?
Seizing the day is my style 60% of the time. The rest of the time I'm feeling sickly so I seize nothing but a blanket and something to get rid of my migraine/allergies/whatever is making me feel yucky.
Theres some kind of weird fuckin people askin you things on here haha I wanna know what your all time favorite band or music genre is and on the sexual side, what was the wildest sex youve ever had and why? =]
Music wise it's a tie between Depeche Mode & Tool. Sex wise...I plead the 5th!
Thanks! Loved your answers. Not sure if it is "kick ass" enough, but I have a Mercury Milan Hybrid. Coolest car I've ever owned! Have you tired of being every man's fantasy? If not, come visit us in Ohio. Just don't publish your schedule in advance.
I'm not every man's fantasy. I am quite a few men's worst nightmare. I embrace being a little bit of both. =)
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Zombies or Aliens?
Zombies. It's more fun to kill zombies. I always follow rule #1 from 'Zombie Land'-cardio. I am awesome at cardio.
hey its SugaKaneSteve. I want to try something new with my girlfriends feet in bed. Got any ideas. I've done a LOT already
Everybody I have ever dated has been rather un-fond of feet, so they have never really gotten lovin' like that. As a result, I am actually stumped on any advice this time. That's a first.
Do you still blog on myspace? What is your nickname on tumblr? Have you ever worked anywhere else in Ohio? What is your dream car? How old is "too old?" Who's the most interesting "celebrity" you've met? Have you ever done a "real" movie?
I don't really go on Myspace anymore, as it seems to be mainly for bands and 14 years olds these days.
My tumblr name is www.missgingerlee.tumblr.com. I do everything from ranting about the state of the world to cooing over adorable pictures to finding inspirations for the residential design stuff I'm learning.
The only place I work in Ohio is Columbus, I think it's written into my contracts that I can't go to places within a certain radius of there, but I'm not 100% sure on that.
Dream car would be either a Shelby GT 500 or a kick ass hybrid of some sort (as long as it's not a Prius).
I don't really believe there is such a thing as 'too old' in the general sense. Some people mature faster than others, and some just never grow up, so I honestly believe 'age' is relative.
I've never really been all that intrigued by any of the celebrities I've met. I will say that Flo Rida was really nice and had an awesome car, so I guess that counts.
I haven't done 'real' movies, but I've done 'real' magazines and 'real' books. I'm more proud of those than any movies or tv appearances.
do you wear boots? :P
Hell yes I do. When it's cold, I love pulling out my boots and rocking them. Speaking of which, I need some new boots before it gets too cold outside...
long or short skirts?
Depends on how cold it is, and what the social setting is. I never wear ankle length skirts due to my height.
do you like it when random people talk to you?
I'm very shy in public, so out in the 'real' world I get startled if random people approach me. On the internet, I don't really mind.
3)Are you pretty open with your feelings?
It depends on who I am talking to. I am quite guarded around some people, but when I'm actually close to people they get my feelings in all their random/cynical/curious glory.
Friday, October 22, 2010
Haha, fair enough. Anyway, I know that youre an avid reader. Have you read or are you reading anything interesting now ?
Right now I'm reading 'Denial' by Jessica Stern. Up to this point it is everything I thought it would be, as it terrifies, enrages, and inspires me simultaneously.
Whats a beautiful, smart, sexy woman like yourself doing answering our stupid questions on a Friday night ? :p
There aren't that many stupid questions, so I figure I may as well entertain myself and others this evening. =)
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When you dance, are you eye contact or eyes closed?
Never close my eyes, but sometimes making eye contact is kinda hard. It depends on my mood, how big the stage is, the song, and the feel of the crowd. There are a few places that keep me so far away from the crowd that I can't really make much eye contact, but if I can find ways to interact with people, I do.
I'm more likely to stick out my tongue/cross my eyes/make a silly face at somebody than to do something 'sexy'. I'm silly at work, it's just how I roll.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Hey girl! I haven't visited in awhile and had a great time reading your recent posts. Wish we could've talked more when you were in Columbus last year. Hopefully there'll be another trip in the not-so-distant future. Can you sell dances when you feature?
I hope so too!
When it comes to selling dances, it depends on the club. Some places allow me to do them, others don't. They *do* let me do them at CG, though. =)
Are you a spiritual person? Eastern or western?
When you say spiritual do you mean 'Does Ginger believe in some dogmatic force that makes her live her life in fear?'. If that's what you mean, no.
If you mean 'Does Ginger believe that there is a way to connect to each other on a human level, to make things better for the world as a whole and not just a 'chosen few''?' then the answer would be yes.
I believe that when people base their entire value system on something that teaches them to fear things that are 'different' or not always in line with their 'beliefs', it sets things up to make a hateful and fearful world. Acceptance and willingness to learn and grow (spiritually or otherwise) is far more important than sitting around being scared of things because somebody tells me that's the way I'm supposed to live.
DO U SLEEP NAKED
Nuh uh. I'm too afraid of the house catching on fire or something like that. I have to at least wear a t-shirt or something!
Monday, October 18, 2010
Does your openness about your life and the fact that you've done porn ever make you anxious about the future? Know one really knows how having so much of peoples "private" lives on the internet forever will impact them in, say 20 years.
I think people, no matter where they've come from, will have things they've done in their lives used against them in various ways. The internet just makes it a bit easier than it used to be. I kinda look at it like....if somebody is horribly offended by the fact that I've run around half naked at some point in my life, and that's the only thing they're able to focus on as opposed to how I am in person/out in public/how I act toward society in general, they've got the problem not me.
I live a pretty boring/normal life when I'm not at work. None of the people I've volunteed with, done classes with, sangha's I have visited, homeless people I have helped, etc. have ever given a crap. They were just thankful that somebody cared enough to show up and take part in something to help others/learn something/try to make a difference. I don't parade around trying to bring attention to myself in the 'real world', I just do what I feel is right and go on about my day.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
I think I've read before you use to dance in North Carolina. Did you every dance at Thee Dollhouse in Raleigh? If so what was your stage name and how did you like it?
I have actually never danced in Raleigh. I've danced in Charlotte, Winston Salem, and spent my first days on stage at Camp Lejeune.
I've had plenty of strippers basically try to molest me during lap dances. Why do you portray it as so terrible to have contact with customers when that clearly isn't always true for many strippers?
That's why I said it is true in my case, but it may not be true with others. It's something that varies from girl to girl.
Different parts of the country have different 'norms', and each girl has a different comfort zone. When I dance I...dance. I'm not trying to get people off, or grab their junk, or make out with them. I was 'raised' by strippers that taught me that it was about teasing, not fulfillment.
(I'm also a major germaphobe, so that probably has something to do with it.)
Saturday, October 16, 2010
One last question, for now. ... Okay, 2. Is Ginger Lee your real name, or a stage name? And, is there anyplace that a fan could purchase an auto'd photo? Or a PO Box or Agent where one could send a Photo for an autograph?
It's a stage name. I'd go insane if I didn't have a stage name. And yes, there is an address listed on my Tumblr page that things can be mailed to. =)
How did you move on from dancer to porn star? And do you find it difficult to deal with the stereotypes that are constant with both professions? I get offended when people make assumptions about dancers because they're insulting my friends.
Blame Nashville's strip club laws for moving from just dancing to doing other things. They made them so restrictive a few years back that it became quite pathetic.
The stereotype thing is frustrating, but I've gotten used to certain parts of it. Obviously there are trainwreck dancers, but there are trainwreck lawyers, doctors, teachers, and just about every other profession. The only difference seems to be that the doctors and lawyers and such hide most of their trainwreck-ness for after work, while some dancers decide to bring theirs along with them. The best/most successful/most beautiful/amazing dancer I have ever know is bat shit crazy when she's not at work, but she's the most refined/pleasant/elegant/entertaining girl on the planet when she straps on her heels.
Backwards stereotype ftw...
How/why did you become a dancer? I've asked a couple of dancers I've become good friends with (more than just a "regular" and they never seem to give me a straight answer.
I was super, super shy before I was a dancer. I'd never even been to a strip club before I went in to get a job. I actually went in to apply to be a waitress, but the manager told me I'd make more money as a dancer so I should try that instead. Somewhere between filling out that application and talking to a couple dancers, I was taken to the dressing room, loaned a pair of stripper shoes that I promptly fell out of, and tumbled on to the stage.
I'd never been so terrified in my life. I had no idea what to do, or how to do it, and it felt like the whole planet was watching me up there on that stage. For the most part the audition was a blur, I just remember getting off stage 10 minutes later, having nearly $30 bucks, and realizing how long I'd have to work at DQ or Chick-Fil-A to make that same $30 dollars.
I was scared shitless, so I packed my stuff, talked to the manager, and told him I'd decide if I could come back to try again within 48 hours. 48 hours later I worked my first full shift and never looked back. I got lucky, I had a 'stripper idol' that helped me learn along the way, and I'm still learning from her today. Without her I'd have probably not even lasted a month before getting fired.
I've only been to 4 clubs, and had wildly different experiences. Two of them didn't allow any touching, one was fully nude with touching (boobs and butt only) and my current club it seems to be up to the girls. How do you feel about customers and 2nd base
*Disclaimer* All the stuff I'm saying is how I feel about certain things, other dances may be the total opposite.
I have a major aversion to people touching me during dances. It messes up my 'flow' and I end up playing 'ninja stripper' for the whole song. I hate having to do it. The only thing worse is when people attempt to grab my hips & hold me in place when I'm sitting on their laps, people who attempt to put their tongues in my ear or lick me, or people that try and 'hump' during dances. It's just weird.
Speaking of people that have a hard time keeping their hands and/or tongues to themselves, I just remembered I've got a blog to write about one of those experiences.
Thanks for the answers. I always try to be a gentleman when I'm in a club, but sometimes the girls just aren't attractive to me, and, of course, the girls I'm usually interested in are always busy! Good to get an answer from a Pro. :)
You're welcome. I'd rather have people ask than go to clubs and act like asshats because they have no idea what they should do in certain situations.
(And as long as you don't tell a dancer you're not interested in that she's ugly/fat/old/whatever, you should be ok. Tact makes all the difference in the world, and if you're a dick to a girl most of the time we hear about it in the dressing room rather quickly, so playing nice goes a long way.)
Sometimes, it seems like the girls are sitting with customers, and other times, it's like they're sitting with friends. I've seen girls sit with the same guys for hours, without ever giving them dances. Is this normal, or do I just visit bad clubs?
There are guys I will sit with all night without doing a single dance. More often than not, that guy is paying me to sit there & talk to him, and paying me well. It probably looks like I'm just sitting on my ass talking to some random dude all night, but there is no way in hell I'm sitting anywhere very long just to do it.
Not all dancers work this way, but it's how things normally work for me.
Also, if I'm sitting at my table, and a dancer I'm not interested in sits down, how do I tell her I'm not interested without her getting angry. I've tried the "I'm not getting dances tonight" line, but it never seems to work.
It really depends on the girl. Normally I won't sit for more than a song or two without asking, and if they say they're not ready/they're not getting dances/they need another drink/etc., I tell them I've gotta get back to work, will check in on them later, and off I go.
If you're waiting on a certain girl, just say so. If it's a dancer that hasn't asked for a dance/you're not really 'feeling' her and she has just been sitting there for a while, the 'I need to run to the restroom/run outside to use my phone/go tip that random girl on stage' excuses are a non-dickish way to (hopefully) get her to move along.
What is good strip club etiquette? If I want a dance from a girl, but she's been sitting with another guy or other strippers, is it okay to approach and ask for a dance?
Not if she's with another guy! I've seen all kinds of problems take place because of a guy approaching a dancer when she was sitting with a customer. Wait until she's on stage, go up to tip her, and when you do let her know you'd like to get a dance from her, or ask one of the waitresses if she could let said dancer know you'd like a dance. (That version works best if you pay the waitress for doing so. Motivation, for real.) If she's sitting with other dancers and there are no customers in sight, go talk to her.
What's your favorite song(s) to dance to?
It goes between 'Come Undone' by Duran Duran, 'Prison Sex' by Tool, and 'Strangelove' by Depeche Mode.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
How is the kick-ass Kitty bag of yours?
I use that bag every time I go to yoga, Zumba, or the gym. Everybody in the locker room things it's is adorable! It holds a ton of stuff too, so I love it. (Thank you for such a kick ass bag.)
What's the most important thing you need to have in a relationship?
Confidence that the other person will be there through thick and thin. From vacations to court dates, and everything in between.
I was interesting in knowing: What's your take on the Eco-friendly trends we have been having this last couples of years?
I think it's been around a long time, it just didn't really get that much attention. The people that were into it were into it and did what they thought was best for the planet. Now that it's going 'mainstream' more people are becoming aware of the options they have. (And for the record, I was recycling and reading books about how to save energy & the environment when I was 6.)
Monday, October 11, 2010
Should all obsessive males be treated the same by the law, whether they are violent or not?
Obsessive in what way? There are so many shades of gray & varying circumstances for each situation. There are many precursors to violence.
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Ginger if you were given the funds to establish your own porn studio. What sort of movies would you produce and of course direct?
'Pretty' stuff, with no misogynist undertones. Kinda like Girlfriends Films type movies.
Have you ever gotten your car stuck in snow, mud or sand? What did you do?
I've actually never gotten stuck. If something looks like I may end up stuck or stranded I don't even risk it. Screw that mess!
Street level econ time: Present personal hurdles and difficulties aside, how has the current depression/recession affected you bookings and income?You're in the trenches across the U.S. so you doubtless have an excellent grasp of regional conditions. Thx
It honestly depends on what part of the country I am in, how big the town I'm working in is, what each club's marketing approach is, and what time of year it is. The smaller the town, the better I tend to do. Like, I was in MS a few months ago, and even though they're a dirt poor state & I was in the middle of nowhere, I made awesome money.
Do you have a favorite leading man? If so who?
I have a massive crush on Justin Timberlake. I will watch anything he is in, no matter how terrible it is.
How did you become comfortable posing nude for strange photographers? I could never do it.
I was super shy growing up, but for some reason I've always been totally comfortable in front of the camera, clothed or not.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Last "Serious" book read? (Novels and "Self-Help" type books don't count although a pass for something like "Origin Of Consciousness In The Breakdown Of The Bicameral Mind" or "The Mask Of Sanity." ) Also favourite websites excluding Amazon? Thanks!
I'm in the middle of reading 'Denial' by Jessica Stern. It's pretty damn good.
My favorite sites other than Amazon? Hmm, I hang out on DeviantArt, a couple sites for strippers, and when I can work, I hang out on Model Mayhem rustling up shoots and such.
Do you have a favorite scent?
Real world wise, I have a thing for lavender in all forms. Perfume wise, I *love* Issey Miyake. It's my favorite smell on the face of the planet.
when will you be returning to work?
As soon as I can do so safely, I will. Trust me, I miss working & travelling & running around all the time like I used to.
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Why did you want to stay in the South? Nashville's cool, but I could see you in Jersey City or Hoboken, NJ. You could have a place with a view of New York City that is the best in the world.
I don't do well up north. I hate the cold. Hate it. The weather, the pace of things, and the traffic all make me grumpy. I can tolerate PA/NJ/NY for a couple of days, but after that it wears on me.
Monday, October 4, 2010
What is your favorite type of music and who is your favorite artist?
I don't have a favorite type, as I seem to listen to just about everything. My favorite artist...that's a tie between Depeche Mode, Tool, and Britney Spears. See? Who has a tie between those three?
How is Panda doing this couples of days?
I've been sick. Finally feeling like I can get out of bed for a little while and grab some food of some sort.
Why did you choose to live in Nashville? How long have you lived there? What qualities do you like best about the city?
I've been here 6 years now. Nashville always seemed like a cool city, I wanted to be in the south, but not in a town so small that I could make it across town in 10 minutes. Nashville's pretty, the people are friendly, and there are tons of things to 'do' around here most of the time. I love it most of the time.
What is the funniest thing that you have done while under the influence? ---Doesn't matter the substance of choice...just make with the funny!
When I have too much sugar or too many energy drinks I do 'interpretive dance' on stage. I act out whatever songs are being played in the most overdramatic way possible. Other than that, I'm never actually under the influence of anything....
What's the one place you would like to be right now?
I wanna be somewhere warm! It's cold up here the past couple days.
I have a small thing I wanted to send you. Do you have a P.O. Box where I can send it?
All Ginger's mail goes to:
5331 Mt View Rd #241
Antioch, TN 37013
=)
Friday, October 1, 2010
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