Hmm... Im sure you're in this situation ALL the time but its a first for me. Short version? I dated a girl for a while, she wanted to be "friends" but still with benefits. I was planning on telling her its all over. She just said I love you. What do I do?

Be honest. Seriously. Don't sugarcoat it, and don't lie. It may come out harsh, but doing anything but being straight up will end up being more of a headache/heartache/dramarama than if you just say how you feel about the situation.

We're all sensitive, emotional creatures, and sometimes we don't want to hurt people so we try to 'let them down easy', but quite often that ends up sending mixed signals to the person we're trying to break it off with. Being honest about it is the best way to go.

You've got a question? Maybe I've got an answer..