Thursday, December 30, 2010

What was your favorite present you received this year?

I don't really have a 'favorite' per se....and I'm not done getting presents this year. I get more tomorrow, or so I've been told.

If I had to pick one right now though, it would probably be the trip that I was sent on during my birthday week. It was fun, calm, warm, and safe. Pretty much everything I had been hoping for.

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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Come to Estonia sometimes:D it is very beautiful winter now and a lot of snow:P

I hate snow. =( I actually hate the cold in general. It makes my lupus angry, so I try to avoid it when I can.

Summertime > winter and snow

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Monday, December 27, 2010

Would you consider being in a relationship with a man who is an elementary school teacher (ie., loves kids, doesn't make a lot of money)?

I don't expect the person that I'm taking to take care of me, that's not why I date people. I expect them to be with me in a mutually supportive relationship, both emotionally and financially.

I expect them to pull their own weight, and to be gainfully employed, but as long as they bills are paid and I'm not sitting on the streets starving, I don't have an issue dating a person that doesn't make a ton of money. If they choose to go above and beyond my expectations, then more power to them and it is greatly appreciated, but I don't expect that from people.

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Thursday, December 23, 2010

Gays serving in the military. Sexual orientation doesn't define how well you can serve your country. Agree? Disagree? Why?

I think if a person if willing to potentially die for the country, who they sleep with in their private life shouldn't make a difference. Simple as that.

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what is your favourite tv show of all time?

Buffy The Vampire Slayer. Hands down, it's totally Buffy.

I <3 Buffy.

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Are you enjoying this nice cold weather??

I hate cold weather. Hate it. Not only does it always end up making me sick, if I'm working, it always ends up screwing up my schedule for my shows.

All I wanna do is find a giant fuzzy blanket and hide somewhere warm.

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Saturday, December 18, 2010

I have to make cookies for a christmas party tomorrow. What kind should I make?

See, I'd make a few different kinds, but I like baking and things of that nature.

Otherwise, it depends on the kind of party it will be and the food preferences of the people that will be there. Exotic flavors and different combinations of ingredients are cool, but if you're hanging out with a crowd that feels that anything other than 'traditional' chocolate chip cookies (no chunks!) is evil, making all kinds of creative flavors will go to waste.

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Friday, December 17, 2010

When dancing or doing movies, do you genuinely enjoy the fact that men - and women, too, Im sure - get off to you, or is it a strictly business, by the numbers kind of thing for you ?

I don't really think about the whole 'wow, they're possibly gonna think about this in a sexual way later' thing when I'm working in a club. It's not a sexual act to me, I'm dancing and making myself happy up on stage, regardless of if people happen to enjoy watching me.

I've said it before, but I don't do it for the people that are there, I do it for me. So yeah, it's business, but it's not a by the numbers thing.

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Thursday, December 16, 2010

Are cats good for anything at all?

Cats are good for all kinds of things! LOLcats wouldn't exist without them, and I would haz a sad if that was the case.

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Would you rather be rich and miserable or dead broke and happy?

I'd rather be broke and happy. I know so many people that have all the money they could ever want, and they are the most miserable people I've ever met. I like money, but what's the point of having it if I'll be miserable and hate the world?

Well, that and the fact that I believe that if I am truly happy, I can find ways to make the most of what I have, and make some money along the way as well.

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What's SLE??

SLE is short for systemic lupus erythematosus. Most people just call it lupus, but there are different forms of lupus, and I happen to be cursed with SLE as opposed to one of the other forms.

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Monday, December 13, 2010

Have you ever had food poisoning?

I've had food poisoning more often that I care to admit. My immune system is all jacked up due to the SLE, so any and everything that can make a person sick ends up kicking my ass.

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Do you think it's easier or harder to meet nice guys with your job?

I think the whole concept of 'nice guys' is bullshit. As soon as somebody goes out of their way to tell me they're a 'nice' guy, I become suspicious. Nice or 'good' people don't need to proclaim it, they just act like themselves and prove it through their actions. There are both good and bad people everywhere, so my job doesn't automatically mean I can't or won't meet 'nice' guys. Do people seem to shamelessly misbehave and act like assholes when they are around me at a club....yeah, sometimes, but not all of them.

I've been horrified and disgusted by more people's actions at places like WalMart than I have by people at my job.

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Sunday, December 12, 2010

What qualities make a guy "special" in your eyes? Is it just some weird chemical reaction of instant attraction, or is it something more?

It's more than that.

I can be attracted to somebody off the bat, that's simple chemistry. That doesn't last very long though, so I need somebody that will talk *to* me as opposed to talking *at* me. I don't care if it's about science, design, feminism, stripping, or my love of things that sparkle....I just need to have somebody that engages in real conversation. Even if we don't agree on everything, I need a person that can communicate well.

I want to be treated like a person, not a prize to be won or a trophy. I can be a handful sometimes (normally when I'm really sick), so I need somebody strong enough to take the good with the bad, and respect and care about me even when I can't get out of bed for days at a time. Patience....I need it.

And the most important thing is respect. For me, the people around me, and the world in general. If I'm on a date and my date is rude/mean to the waitress, especially when they are only trying to do their job, I'm done.

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Friday, December 10, 2010

I'd love to see ya in person, so hopefully that'll work out. You have to come back to the northeast! It's hard to keep track of your whereabouts, though. With twitter so many posts mean I miss stuff. Just saw you're in PHX! Sorry no ? , just comment!

I'm gonna be up that way again soon. Promise!

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We all know that porn is all over the internet, with people illegally downloading scenes. Would I be helping your career in any way by buying dvds where you are featured? I am just trying to establish how as a fan I might best support your career.

I'm gonna be kind of weird when it comes to this.

Looking at it one way, I want to say that buying DVD's that I'm in is a good thing. Not because I get any money when you buy them (I obviously don't), but because when you actually pay for a DVD it helps the 'circle of life' keep going when it comes to money for the companies. They're the ones that hire and pay me, so if they don't have any sales, they aren't hiring me for anything.

On the other hand, I just want to say to come see me at a club when I'm featuring. You get to see me in person, you can buy a DVD from me (that I sign), and I actually get some money from the sale. Hey, I have my selfish moments on occasion.

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Thursday, December 9, 2010

do you find me attractive?

I don't know you. I don't determine whether a person is attractive by simply looking at them, it's more in their actions than whether or not they've got a pretty face.

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Why do you think so many from the South do not share your political views?

I think it may depend on how they are raised, and what their outlook on life is. I've seen both sides of the coin, and while I could walk around being ignorant and pretend that everything is happy and perfect in the world, I can't do that. I'd rather try and make things better instead of keeping them the same.

Until people are taught to consider how and why people got to the place they are in the world, it won't change. The whole 'pull yourself up by the bootstraps' thing is bullshit. People born into poverty, or abusive homes, or any number of things that make a huge difference in how they may live their lives don't get the same starting point that others do. Everybody's got a story, so until we treat people like actual human beings, I can't sit by and watch others get screwed over by the 'big guys at the top'.

Well, that and I don't do the whole religious bullshit that a lot of people around my neck of the woods seem to be really interested in.

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Sunday, December 5, 2010

Ever been tied up and tickled?

All the time. Always in a work capacity, though.

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Do you own a sibean and/or a magic wand? Thinking of getting one or both for my girl and wondered how you would rate them.

I don't own either. =( They're fun, though!

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Do I sense of tone of sarcasm? If so that's cool, I just have no reason to be here except to follow you. I don't have time to check here a lot, so i f I have enough notice, I can work on your stripping twin and try to coax her into a meeting at CG.

No, no. No sarcasm. I'm seriously trying to start travelling and working again. When I make my way back up there I will be sure to let you know.

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I know you're keeping your schedule secret these days, but could you e-mail me next time you visit our Buckeye State? My address on Yahoo! is my nickname here plus the sum of each of the eight numbers in your birthdate plus 69 (ironic huh?). LOL!

Oh I can totally do that. You know this!

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Would you go out with a dude who wore a cape?

Depends on the kind of cape. There are some pretty kick ass capes out there.

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Crap, and I almost invited you to the Columbus Zoo last month when you were here! LOL! Just kidding, but seriously if you've never been you should check it out next visit. I'm sure Jungle Jack would even greet you personally.

I've always wanted to go to the Columbus Zoo. I love going to zoos in the cities that I visit when I'm travelling.

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Saturday, December 4, 2010

How often do guys ask to have sex with you on a weekly bases?

Every. Fucking. Day. They'd have far better luck being able to have sex with me if they asked me to go to Barnes & Noble or the zoo or something.

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Who would get your juices going faster; a fan of Green Lantern, or a Captain America fan?

I hate Captain America. He's so smug and that bothers me to the point that I simply cannot find him attractive. Green Lantern wins by default.

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what do i have to do to make love with you??honey...

You need to make the Earth flip upside down, and start spinning in the opposite direction while also somehow convincing the sun that it should orbit us instead of the other way around.

If you somehow manage to make that occur, I then require a full mental evaluation conducted by a psychologist of my choice, a full time job, your own place of residence, and the understanding that trying to 'convince' me to have sex with a person is kinda pointless. If I don't want to sleep with somebody, attempting to sway me doesn't do anything but annoy me.

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Friday, December 3, 2010

So, I went to the club last night. A girl came over and I decided to get a couple of dances with her. I told her beforehand, that all I had left were my two $20 bills. She took the money, and gave my dances. Afterward, she asked me for a tip! AND, got pis

That actually happens all the time. We have so many guys tell us so many things that sometimes it all blurs together. Most of us have a 'method' to the way we do things, so occasionally we forget that somebody has already said they're out of money or something of that nature.

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More of a thought that a question. Have done a bit of "googling" on Lupus to get a bit more of an understanding. Very surprised?? Have a new understanding of what you have been going through this last year?? and all my best thoughts for you :)

Thank you.

There are days that it kicks my ass, and days that I do ok with it. Depends on my stress level, the weather, and how much Aleve I have pumping through my system. I'm always tired, but it's one of those things you just kind of get used to over time.

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Thursday, December 2, 2010

What is your favorite perfume?

Issey Miyake. I fucking love Issey Miyake. It's also one of the few scents that doesn't give me a migraine, so that's a plus.

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lube or spit?

Depends on what it's being used for.....sometimes spit just doesn't cut it.

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Did ya get any cool gifts for your b-day? And have you needed your "Ms Kitty" spoons yet?

I got an amazing trip to the islands, along with tons of fun while I was there, a bunch of cool Hello Kitty stuff, some shoes, books, and a few other kick ass things. All in all it was a pretty good birthday.

Spoon wise....I've needed them, and I've used them.

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Have you received my b-day gift?

My clock did come in! I did a little happy dance and was quite pleased when I opened the box. Thank you Leo!

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