Tuesday, November 30, 2010

would you say you are a nerd or a geek?

I'm a total dork. I kinda love it. I will always be socially awkward, shy around most people, and would rather spend my time reading or other quiet stuff than going out to clubs or bars.

However, if I had to choose between nerd and geek, I'd consider myself to be more of a nerd.

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Any TSA issues during your travel? (insert obvious "pat-down" joke here)

I refused the body scan and the super intense pat down. I did it with a smile, too. Even the people that were getting body scans still got patted down afterward, so I sure as fuck wasn't getting violated twice.

I would rather stand in line for 2 hours to go through the regular metal detectors than have them whisk me through their 'new' method. I'm of the frame of mind that if one of them touched me in certain areas I wouldn't be able to stop myself from smacking the shit out of them. TSA or not, if anybody touches me in certain places I will react in a negative way. It would've been all down hill from there....so I avoided the whole situation.

Fuck them and their bullshit methods of 'safety'. The 'terrorists' have already won, since people are too scared to even stand up and say they are uncomfortable with what some people are being told to do in the interest of keeping us 'safe'.

/rant

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Which side of the bed do you like to sleep on?

I sleep in the middle of the bed. I'm greedy like that.

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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Are you flattered when a guy orgasms while you're workin' it at the strip club? It means the guy really likes you.

It makes me throw up in my mouth and run for the door. I then mock him to his face and tell the rest of the dressing room how icky he is. After that I take the longest, hottest shower known to man until I run out of water. If I could have found tons of rubbing alcohol to scrub myself down with, I'd have done that as well.

^^True story. I'd tell you to ask the guy I had to do that to, but he left before I could get his name. I just call him 'creepy overzealous guy that can't control himself around a girl'.

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Hey Sweetheart, Just wondering how the "kids" are :)

They're great. The cockatoo has been trying to figure out why he doesn't have as much daylight lately, since it means he has to fill more misbehaving into fewer daylight hours. Damn winter...

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I was just looking at your Amazon b-day list and noticed about 30% of the items listed were shoes. WTF? Why do girls have to have 100\'s of pairs of shoes???

Because shoes are awesome.

To be honest, 95% of them are for work purposes. I have to have new shoes and clothes when I do my 'mainstream' type shoots, as being seen in the same pair of shoes in more than a dozen different photographer's ports begins to look stale. I beat the hell out of my stripper shoes/boots, so I need new ones pretty much constantly, as well.

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Friday, November 19, 2010

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

I noticed that feature dancers only have shows Th-Sat in a town, none Sunday. Any reason for that? Flight scheds. maybe?

Clubs normally don't have large crowds on Sundays in general, so it's harder to get a draw from people on the day normally committed to sports/Jesus/getting ready for the work week. In all my years featuring I've only worked one Sunday, and that was because it was the Super Bowl. It's a supply and demand thing.

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Any chance of seeing you locally any time soon or does Ohio get all the attention?

Haha. Nashville never gives me any love. I'd totally dance around town if it wasn't such a pain in the ass to do. (AKA, my permit expired and I haven't paid the $150 to renew it yet.)

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Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How do you heal a broken heart?

Chocolate, therapy, and good friends that know how to make you laugh. At least that's what I've been told.

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Sunday, November 14, 2010

Besides sex; Pick one: a joint, or a glass of good wine. What's your go-to stress reliever?

I've never smoked, and I'm not allowed to drink due to a medical condition, so....neither? My go-to stress relievers are yoga, writing, or going on an OCD fueled cleaning spree.

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what is the most trouble a men can got with you on dark room alone ?????????????

I don't go in dark rooms. I sleep with a night light and the tv on, so I guess the whole dark room thing is moot. If for some reason the lights went out, I'd be the one hauling ass for a light source.

But really, why would I be in a dark room alone with a guy other than a person I was dating unless I'd been kidnapped or something?

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Thursday, November 11, 2010

What is your favorite breed of dogs?

Dachshunds and great danes are my favorite. I've had dachshunds since I was a kid, such sweet little dogs.

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What is your favorite feature on your cell phone?

It shoots laser beams! Ok not really, but that would be hella cool if it could. Other than the fact that I can get all my emails and conduct most of my online life from it, I like that it's a wonderful shade of pink and my dog hasn't been able to eat it thus far.

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Do you tip @ Starbucks? Why, or why not?

I only go to Starbucks about once a year or so, but when I go I do tip. I don't order things that are complicated or labor intensive, but I like to leave a tip as a good karma type thing. I know there will be somebody that is super difficult that comes in at some point that day that will be a pain and won't tip either, so I try to make up for their crappy behavior by leaving a karma dollar.

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Sunday, November 7, 2010

When in a relationship it is ok to fuck other people?

I think the dynamics of each relationship need to be examined by both parties involved before a decision either way should be made. Some couples probably don't have an issue with it, and some probably do. It's something that doesn't have a cut and dry 'yes' or 'no' answer.

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Let's be honest here. You are a very attractive girl...and not just because of your profession. You're simply stunning. Do you have a hard time in your every day, non porn star life being left alone by men?

I go out of my way to try to *not* get attention from people in day to day life. It only works about half the time. The other half...I just do my semi-awkward 'thank you' and go on with my day. If they persist I sometimes end up having to tell them to fuck off, but that's not very often.

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U said "Anybody that can’t accept me as a person that is not defined by my job is not somebody that I want to spend my time with." .... I´ll be fine with the stripper thing, but the porn one, with other guys,,, I don´t know,,,, Can U get that?

I understand that it could be hard for certain guys, or people in general. However, there are people that understand that I am far more than just an adult film star, and appreciate the fact that I have varied interests, goals, and personal beliefs outside the adult industry.

I don't wear a sign when I go out that says 'Hi, I'm in the adult industry, cool, huh?', so there are a lot of people that meet the 'real' me and hang out/form an opinion on me as a person long before what I do as a job becomes a topic of discussion. In most situations like that, the only thing people say is 'Oh, you don't act like a porn star/stripper/naked chick', and we go on doing whatever it is we were doing. They don't play 20 questions, or start treating me differently, they just continue treating me the same way they always have.

Those are the people I let into my personal life.

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Monday, November 1, 2010

Hey Ginger! Do you gave any other geeky pursuits besides being on the Internets all day?

I read a lot, paint, do yoga, go to local 'green' restaurants and events, meditate, do 'nature' type stuff, work with/help the homeless, take part in domestic violence awareness, figure out new things I like doing related to interior design, and make big messes with things I find at Home Depot. I'm a dork, I'm cool with it.

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SUV's are cool, I was just being goofy. Sorry if offended you. :( I'm off now to walk my dog. Great, it's dark in Ohio. Guess I spent too much time reading your blogs on tubmlr! How you went off on that last guy had me screaming 'YOU GO GIRL'!!

You didn't offend me at all hon. And I'm sorry I kept your occupied for too long.

I really didn't mean to sound crazy harsh on that dude, he just asked a dense question that offends me on so many levels that I can't help but tell them to STFU.

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Yeah, got it, great pic! One question though, what the heck are you driving? Looks more like an SUV than a kick-ass hybrid or Shelby. Guess that's why we dream ... teehee!

I've got more than one car. I use one around town and one is my 'strip club/working on the road car'. And yes, I was driving and SUV in that photo.

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